My best friend sent me a link to "an open letter to my best
friend's future husband", so I decided to make my own rendition of this
letter, but to her future husband...
Dear you,
I have probably waited for you just as long, if not longer than
she has... so this letter has been a long time coming. Whether you've been
around the entire time or if you came into our lives down the road, you have
definitely been the topic of most of our conversations for majority of our
friendship and will be a main topic for the rest of our lives. She
has dreamed of you all of her life, I have dreamed of you since she came
into mine. We have talked about anything and everything when it comes
to you from the way your hair is parted to the annoying habits you
have or the sweet things you say. Don't worry, your secrets are safe with
me, because let's be honest, she can't not tell me, right? If you didn't know,
you do now. We talk about EVERYTHING when it comes to you, trust me.
We don't necessarily "judge" you, but be aware of what you
do, my friend. I know you know what you're getting yourself into when
it comes to her, but there's things you may not know. The love of your life is
also the love of my life. She will always be my top priority, whether you
and I get along or not, I will always be around. I know you think you
may know her like a book, but there is nobody in this world that knows her
better than I do. She can be opinionated, she is competitive, she is the life
of the party but know she needs time to herself too, she has such a kind heart,
she is sensitive whether she shows it or not, but she is so strong whether she
knows it or not. Nothing gets past her so don't try, trust me, her and I
together can dig up anything. She is definitely one in a million, so you are
lucky she let you in... keep her. I know she will show you a new side of life,
and I pray that you do the same for her. Remind her she is beautiful,
never stop showing her you care, surprise her, show your support even if you
don't understand the situation, agree with her because we both know she will
get her way anyways. Out of all the advice I can give you, the one thing I ask
of you is that you never give up on her love. She is a tough soul and she has
opened up to you, that isn't something that is easy for her, she has had a
past, so respect her and love her more each day. You may not have believed me
when I said I've waited for you as well, but it's true. She was mine before she
was yours, I've seen every side of her and I know how much she already loves
you whether you are present in our lives or not, she deserves this happiness
and love, and I am so blessed that she found that in you. I may be bitter that
I have to share my best friend, and I will need my fair share, but if you mean
that much to her, you mean that much to me. Thank you for finding her and
sweeping her off her feet.
Best wishes,
Macy Jo
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